Claiming your Twin Flame for eternity - What are you afraid to lose?

Here is the deep question I want you to meditate today that will support you furthering your Twin Flame journey.

We are all eager to be with our Twin Flame and might be a bit disappointed when things don’t go fully our way. As we know, there’s always a reason for it. The topic I want to touch on today is the following:

What if you are still in Twin Flame separation because you are afraid to lose something?

Especially when starting this journey and experiencing a lot of transformation all of a sudden, we might feel scared or discouraged. Is it possible that we might unconsciously believe that we lose something in this process and this is why we are holding ourselves back from going all in on our Twin Flame journey?

It might be true… You see, in the process of manifesting your Twin Flame Union you will experience some loss. Many people share show friendships end, their relationship with their family becomes complicated, careers shift and many similar situations. If you are one who is accustomed to being in one space and you feel comfortable there, then I can see how you would be off put by these changes that people share having while in their journey. If you are in this space, maybe you are not ready to face the truth about the Twin Flame journey and it’s better to see if this path is for you or not.

However, if you are one of the brave souls that is not afraid of change and understands the epic transformation that your soul and life go through while on the Twin Flame journey… can you still be hold back by places where you are not fully willing to let go of something that is secretly holding you back?

The common trait all Twin Flames in Harmonious Twin Flame Union have

Observing myself, Jeff and Shaleia and other couples in Harmonious Twin Flame Union, I can see a common trait between all of these people that I believe has helped them immensely on their journey and that is: not being afraid to lose it all to have it all!

I have heard Jeff and Shaleia in Twin Flame Ascension School Classes describe their passion and dedication for being with their Twin Flame through phrases like: “I will be with my Twin Flame or I will stay single for the rest of my life.”; “I will have what I desire or I will die in the process of achieving it.” (paraphrased) and very similar powerful declarations of commitment towards what they believed in.

Now… before you go running thinking that I am asking you to completely demolish your life to be with your Twin Flame, hear me our. Trust the process and hold your horses for a moment.

This way of thinking I have observed, not only through words, but action too, in many people who are now in Harmonious Twin Flame Union. To be with their Twin Flames, some have crossed borders, have released toxic relationship in their life (either previous partners or other types of relationships), have put all their money on the line, have confronted new environments and situations, have switched jobs, moved to different cities and many more.

These people have gone through massive changes and transformations in their life to cultivate a life with their Twin Flame together in Harmonious Twin Flame Union.

These people have acknowledged their desires and DID NOT SETTLE for anything but their dream fulfilled.

These people were willing to lose it all to have it all.

Is there anything you would be unwilling to let go so you can be with your Twin Flame?

Remember that the Twin Flame journey is about love, rediscovering yourself and coming back to God. One key thing to keep in mind is that you would never ever be asked to let go of something that is loving in your life in order to be with your Twin Flame. Something that is loving will naturally align with your Twin Flame Union. So, the initial question one must answer is not about if you are unwilling to let go of anything to be with your Twin Flame, because first you must find out if you should let go of the said thing in the first place. Then the first actual question to answer is: Are you willing to find the truth about something fully and completely and determine if it is loving for you or not? Then, if you find something that is not loving, are you willing to let it go?

The process seems a lot more easier now, so we can let out a sign of relief.

While easier, facing the truth about your circumstances can still be challenging. After all, we hold on to these beliefs for so long that, maybe, to some degree we feel like they are part of us or they benefit us in some way.

How to let go of something that feels impossible to let go of?

In truth, you are only ever asked to explore how do you feel about that something that supposedly is holding you back. As you heal and honestly look in that space, you should experience an awareness at some point.

The awareness feels like the “aha” moment.

You finally understand.

You finally “get” it.

There is no denying when you have that experience. If you ever had these types of awareness as a result of your healing, you know what I mean. You know how it feels. So, you are able to identify if, within yourself, you have achieved an awareness about the situation you are healing.

You do not need to push or force the awareness to happen. It will come naturally as a result of your healing. If you do not feel you have arrived at an awareness then you don’t need to worry, fret or despair. You simply need to continue healing. There is nothing wrong in peeling layers and layers until we have an awareness. It’s a natural part of the process. Some upsets, blocks, patterns, limiting beliefs we might experience have deep deep roots within our own consciousness therefore we need a lot of patience and persistence to be able to fully remove them. This is why we cannot really compare any Twin Flame journey with another. We all have our own cross to carry, so to say, and judging others or yourself because of how the journey looks like will only bring you sadness and frustration. You don’t need to judge. Only accept and continue healing.