Exploring building a house with my Twin Flame
Recently, one of the things Laurentiu and I have been exploring is investing into a new home that we could call our own. We have been renting ever since we have been together and it has been very good for us to get clear on what we like in a home or not. We have healed a lot and learned about ourselves a lot through moving and living in 4 places all through our relationship.
However, the exploration of us owning a home started a while back when Jeff guided us to ground deeper in our country by investing in some real estate. Ever since then we have been on a quest to explore and find how that would look for us. We have considered buying apartments but through our recent experiences we were quite set we wanted a house. However, a house is outside of our means at the moment. We continued healing, watching TFAS and LPC and claiming our next steps.
An opening came up with my mom. A bit of a backstory, our relationship was not that great and I had to enforce strict boundaries in our relationship a few years back which included blocking her. I was very clear when I put boundaries with her and I thoroughly explained what I did not agree with in her behavior and what I could not tolerate anymore in our relationship. She did not understand and try to ignore my boundaries which resulted in the blocking. However, when we started exploring this, God remembered me about her and how one of the things she always pointed out is that she wanted me to use however I saw fit the land that she worked hard to obtain from her inheritance. As an only child, that would most likely be passed down to me unless my mom specifically chose otherwise, which she never stated despite any conflicts we had in our relationship. Therefore, I decided to reconnect and long story short, I could see that she indeed changed based on the things that I have explained that I could not tolerate in our relationship. A few things to give as an example are: she chose to end her toxic relationship with her ex and found a calmer partner, she quit smoking, she got a job, she is investing in herself and building her happiness in the best way she can without needing me in her life. After some reconnection and healing talk, it seemed our relationship started to mend. We explored moving there and felt through the options coming up.
We had a lot of healing to do each step of the way and we are still not sure where this exploration will lead us, however right now we have discovered prefabricated houses and we believe, if we play our cards right, with a 5 year loan we could get a cabin like in the picture. We are having a lot of fun exploring this and I believe it will be an enriching experience for us to learn and heal more about owning and building our perfect home. Of course, this will be a "humble beginnings" kind of situation, since it won't be anything grand but I believe we can make it our own and be something we cherish in our lives.
We are grateful for Jeff and Shaleia for nudging us into the direction of our dreams ever so lovingly and for the support they have provided us in TFAS, LPC and also Dreams Coming True which has been fundamental for us in this process.
You can build the perfect life with your Twin Flame too if you choose to follow the simple process presented by the Teachings of Union at https://twinflamesuniverse.com/