How can I cut cords with my Twin Flame?

How can I cut cords with my Twin Flame? This is a question that many people in the Twin Flame community ask themselves. The answer may surprise you - you cannot cut cords with your Twin Flame. However, you can cut cords with the energy that keeps you in a state of longing, pain, or discomfort. In this blog, we will explore the concept of cord-cutting and introduce you to a powerful tool known as the Mirror Exercise.

Firstly, let's talk about what cords are. Cords are energetic ties between two people that can form through any type of relationship. In a Twin Flame connection, cords are formed between the two souls and can be incredibly strong due to the deep spiritual and emotional connection. These cords can be positive or negative, depending on the state of the relationship. Positive cords can enhance the love and connection between the Twin Flames, while negative cords can lead to feelings of pain, fear, and confusion.

The misconception that many Twin Flames have is that they need to cut cords with their Twin Flame to move on or to stop feeling the intense longing that they experience. However, cutting cords with your Twin Flame is not possible because the connection between you is eternal and unbreakable. Instead, the focus should be on cutting cords with the negative energy that is keeping you stuck in a state of discomfort.

One effective tool for cord-cutting is the Mirror Exercise. The Mirror Exercise involves identifying a specific upset or trigger that you are experiencing and examining it from a different perspective. Here are the steps to follow:

STEP ONE: Describe in one concise sentence the upset you are experiencing. For example, "I feel angry and hurt that my Twin Flame is not communicating with me."

STEP TWO: Write the sentence all over again, but switch all the nouns to pronouns to point to yourself. For example, "I feel angry and hurt because I am not communicating with myself."

STEP THREE: Ask yourself, “Is there ANY truth to this statement?” The answer is always “Yes.” This step can be challenging because it requires you to take ownership of your emotions and to recognize that you are the one responsible for how you feel.

STEP FOUR: Speak to the part of yourself causing the upset and love yourself until you experience peace, relief, and completion within. Do the visualization exercise to further this healing if need be. This step involves visualizing yourself where you are upset and directing love and compassion towards yourself.

Let's use the previous example to illustrate how the Mirror Exercise works. In step one, you would write, "I feel angry and hurt that my Twin Flame is not communicating with me." In step two, you would switch the nouns to pronouns and write, "I feel angry and hurt because I am not communicating with myself." In step three, you would acknowledge the truth in this statement - perhaps you are not communicating with yourself in a way that feels loving and supportive. Finally, in step four, you would direct love and compassion towards yourself, perhaps through visualization or affirmations, and set intentions to improve your communication with yourself and with your Twin Flame.

In conclusion, cutting cords with your Twin Flame is not possible, but cutting cords with negative energy is. The Mirror Exercise is a powerful tool that can help you identify and release the negative energy that is keeping you stuck in a state of longing, pain, or discomfort. By taking ownership of your emotions and directing love and compassion towards yourself, you can begin to heal and transform your Twin Flame connection. Remember that the journey towards union starts with the relationship you have with yourself.