How your Twin Flame is always helping you… even in separation
The relationship you have with your Twin Flame will be very different from any soul mate relationship you might have experienced so far. There are many old relationship dynamics that simply do not work in your Twin Flame Union. Something seen as beneficial in a soul mate relationship can actually be the cause of your Twin Flame running away from you right now. So, with all of this in mind, how is your Twin Flame helping you figure out your connection especially when you are in separation, with no contact?
Your Twin Flame is always helping you in your Union
There are many ways in which you Twin Flame is always supporting you in your Union, however it doesn’t look the way you would expect. The Teachings of Union say that your Twin Flame is your Spiritual Teacher or Guru first and you are student. These roles can interchange in your relationship as needed, however, since you are reading this, you will most likely have to assume the position of a student as of now to help support your Reunion. What does that mean? It means that the current situation you are facing in your process of coming into Harmonious Twin Flame Union is a lesson that you have to learn and your Twin Flame is helping you see that lesson through Twin Flame Mirroring. Your Twin Flame will always mirror back to you things in your consciousness that would need attention and healing. All those places can be easily healed with the Mirror Exercise that is taught in the Teachings of Union. If you allow yourself to look at your current circumstance as a lesson, then you will have an easier time healing through the experience as well as release any resentment that might be cultivating because your Twin Flame doesn’t behave in a way you expect.
Doing the Mirror Exercise is the only thing you need to do to receive your Twin Flame’s support
Now that you have identified that anything that is happening between you and your Twin Flame is a lesson, what is there to be done so you can learn the lesson once and for all? The answer is simple: healing in that space with the Mirror Exercise. If you are not familiar with the Mirror Exercise then the Free Introductory Course and the book Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover and the best places for you to start learning this transformative healing modality. Don’t worry, it’s actually very simple to practice it. You don’t need any tools or special things to heal, just a quiet space, a notebook and a pen so you can write down your Mirror Exercises in peace and quiet.
How your Twin Flame helps you in separation
You would naturally think that, in order to see the mirroring so you can apply the Mirror Exercise on what comes up, your Twin Flame would have to be in your life, but that is simply not true. Even if you are in separation you can connect with your Twin Flame and receive insight or guidance on what the current lesson that you are navigating is. It might simply manifest as a fear, or a feeling of abandonment. That feeling that you have in your heart when you connect with your Twin Flame is the next step you seek. You can apply the Mirror Exercise to the feeling coming up in order to heal it. In doing so, you are releasing the separation between you and your Twin Flame at the core which helps magnetize them to you.
The ultimate Twin Flame secret to know while in separation
If you are doing the above but you are still not experiencing the results you are seeking, it might be because there is an expectation on the relationship you have with your Twin Flame that is not appropriate. In truth, your Twin Flame can only give you what you have given yourself. That is why the Mirror Exercise is so crucial. However, on top of that, the only place you can find true fulfillment is in relating to your Source and allowing yourself to receive the love, joy, attention, validation that you feel you would like from your Twin Flame from your source. You cannot have a co-dependent relationship with your Twin Flame. Co-dependency will cause separation in your Twin Flame Union. As you heal and realize that you can have a relationship with your Twin Flame without having expectations or needing something from your Twin Flame, then you will experience a breakthrough and a true connection with your Twin Flame. If you allow yourself to imagine how would it feel if your Twin Flame wanted to be with you to get something from you. Probably not very nice. That’s the reason why co-dependency is something that requires healing in your Union and any other relationships as well.
