How to talk about sex with your Twin Flame when: in separation, getting into Union and beyond

Twin Flame sex is one of the most wonderful parts about the Twin Flame relationship, without a doubt. After many failed romantic partner to finally experience fulfillment in this place is truly special. However, maybe not all Twin Flames experience having such an easy time in their sex life. How can that be? Maybe you’re not Twin Flames since the attraction between you is not that strong or the sex is not that good… right? Let’s not just to conclusions.

Yes, while you are meant to have the best sex with your Twin Flame, if you don’t understand what Twin Flame sex is about, then you might be disappointed. No worries, you can read about what Twin Flame Sex is truly about in the following blog posts that we highly recommend: link, link, link

In this post we are focused on the communication aspect of the sexual relationship with your Twin Flame.

Why is communication important for your sex life with your Twin Flame?

Jeff and Shaleia say that all upsets between Twin Flames are just miscommunications. So, you can deduce that having a healthy communication with your Twin Flame about your sex life is crucial in cultivating deeper intimacy, romance and passion.

The truth is both you and your Twin Flame are humans with preferences, kinks and traumas related to sex. You might have both already had sexual partners before (or not) and you might already know what you want in this area (or not). Simply put, there are many variables here and the more missing variables you have, the higher changes are that you might step on each other’s toes without wanting that. You might hurt each other unintentionally and then you have to build trust again to be able to open up to each other intimately. While the process will most likely have its ups and downs, approaching this area of your life maturely and being equipped with the healing tools necessary can save you a lot of tears.

Talking about sex can be an uncomfortable topic for some people, but when it comes to discussing it with your Twin Flame, it’s an important conversation to have. Your Twin Flame is the other half of your soul, and your connection goes beyond the physical realm. Therefore, it’s essential to communicate your needs and desires in all areas, including sex. However, talking about sex with your Twin Flame can be difficult, especially during different stages of your journey, such as being in separation, getting into union, and beyond.

Talking about sex in separation

When you are in separation from your Twin Flame, communication can be difficult. You might feel like you are not on the same page or that your Twin Flame is not even interested in talking about sex… or any other topic. However, it’s essential to have open and honest communication, especially when it comes to sex.

If you are in no communication, then the best way to approach it is from a healing perspective first. Since your relationship with your Twin Flame is a mirror, just how you are not communicating with yourself generally speaking, one aspect of the lack of communication might be the communication about sex. You have to understand yourself first and what are your sexual needs and desires, what are your hurts or your traumas.

Only by openly communicating with yourself first you can start to lay the foundation of having a healthy talk with your Twin Flame about sex when the opportunity arises. Knowing yourself and healing anything that comes up for you related to this topic is fundamental. Also, knowing how to have a healthy relationship with your own sexual energy is something that help you be more attractive towards your Twin Flame.

If you and your Twin Flame are in communication but still not sure if you are on your way to start the romantic relationship yet, you don’t need to push any communication at this time. Simply heal with yourself and get clear with yourself and the perfect opportunity will arise for you to communicate about this topic when you would be exploring a romantic relationship together, meaning while getting into Union.

Talking about sex while getting into union

When you are getting into union with your Twin Flame, communication is essential. You might feel like you are starting to be on the same page with your Twin Flame and ready to take your relationship to the next level. There are many things to be clarified when you are getting into Union with your Twin Flame, and sex is one of those things.

One way to start the conversation is to take things slow. Talk about what you are comfortable with and what you are not. Discuss your boundaries and expectations and ask your Twin Flame about theirs. This will help you both understand each other's needs and desires and ensure that you are both comfortable moving forward.

Another way to start the conversation is to express your feelings and emotions. Sex is an emotional connection as well, and it’s important to communicate how you feel. Share your thoughts on intimacy and what it means to you. Discuss how you can deepen your connection with each other, both emotionally and physically.

If you encounter something in these discussions that is not feeling quite right, it’s important to heal with the Mirror Exercise what is coming up about it and be honest in this space. Pushing, forcing or trying to control your Twin Flame will not work, so have compassion, understanding and gentleness as you approach this topic. In truth, you are perfect sexual partners for each other, so anything that is coming up is simply space in which you need to harmonize together.

Talking about sex beyond Union

When you are in Union with your Twin Flame, your sexual connection can deepen and evolve. However, it’s important to continue to communicate openly and honestly about your sexual needs and desires. This will ensure that you both enjoy a fulfilling and satisfying sexual connection.

The primary function of sex in your relationship is to be an Ascension Tool, so it will be natural for things to come up as you deepen in your sexual relationship. As you feel you or your Twin Flame might freeze, shut down or simply numb in this part of your relationship, healing and communication become even more crucial. Don’t force things but don’t let them sit either. Healing is an active process and if you keep feeling stuck in this place it simply means there is still something to be healed and addressed deeper.

Approaching this with love, compassion and gentleness is essential yet again, just because of how sensitive this topic can be. Be open to feedback as you choose to deepen in your sexual relationship. Your Twin Flame might seem like have different preferences or needs, and it’s important to be receptive to their feedback. In truth, you align perfectly in your sexual needs and, as you heal, you can harmonize even deeper in this area. Listen to what they have to say and be open to making changes or trying new things.

In conclusion, talking about sex with your Twin Flame can be challenging, but it’s an essential conversation to have