Important healing for the Divine Feminines

Feb 15

I recently went through a deeper level of healing with my Divine Masculine, Laurentiu that I felt was important to be shared.

It all started with going deeper in my Twin Flame Ascension School studies. In this class, Jeff was speaking with a student and at some point, the student said something like this "My Twin Flame should do this for me." (paraphrased) at which point Jeff interrupted the student, saying that their Twin Flame shouldn't be doing anything for them or giving to them in that space, because that place must be fulfilled by God because God is the source of your good, not your Twin Flame.

When watching Twin Flame Ascension School, I find that many of the lessons I see the students move through are presented to me to move through as well in one way or another.

The way the upset presented itself was when me and Laurentiu were doing some inner work together. We arrived at a point of conflict, at which I became frustrated. I noticed myself having thoughts like "He should be doing this for me", "He should change in this way", "Why is he not doing what I want". Having reviewed the class recently, I instantly could recognize the pattern playing out. I also remembered about the passages in Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover talking about control and how your Twin Flames doesn't need to do any of the inner work for you to have a loving relationship. I made new choices, released control and did the Mirror Exercise. I experienced relief and soon after the conflict between me and Laurentiu was resolved.

So, from my experience, if you ever notice yourself having any of the following thoughts:

My Twin Flame should do this for me
My Twin Flame should change there
Why is my Twin Flame not doing what I want
anything similar

STOP IMMEDIATELY and choose to move through your feelings about what you believe your Twin Flame is doing or not doing for you to feel happy and fulfilled (aka do the Mirror Exercise). As Jeff said in the class, remember that God is your Source, NOT YOUR TWIN FLAME. Whenever you try to make your Twin Flame the source of anything in your life, it will create conflict, contrast and separation between you.

The Mirror Exercise to heal this block would be something like this:

1. I am upset at my Twin Flame because they are not doing this for me and that makes me feel sad/frustrated/angry/etc.

2. I am upset at myself because I am not loving myself and that makes me feel sad/frustrated/angry

3. Is it true? Yes - I look for love outside of myself and therefore avoid loving myself.

4. Love that part of you that is looking for love externally. Be present until that part feels peaceful and fully loved. Integrate that part of you back into your heart.

Hope this resonate and it helps!

With love, Alexandra ❤️