New to the Twin Flame journey? Here are some easy concepts to understand

If you ever heard about Twin Flames, Twin Souls, Twin Sparks, Soul Mates, you might already have some understanding about what this journey is all about. While a lot of information is being tossed around, from my own experience, I found that the information at https://twinflamesuniverse.com/ , and the teachings of Jeff and Shaleia, are the ones that feel the best for me. This blog is meant to provide you some clarity about the Twin Flame journey and some information based on what I learnt about this connection.

Twin Flames versus Soul Mates? Are they different?

The short answer is, yes!

Going into more details, the Soul Mate relationship can be romantic in nature, but it is not necessary to be like that. You can have friends, family or even business partners that can be considered your Soul Mates. You have a strong relationship with a Soul Mate and they can be an important part of your life, often carrying an important lesson in your journey. Some of them might transform in beautiful relationships that last lifetimes. Soul Mates are people/souls that come into your life, but it is not guaranteed they will stay forever.

This is where Twin Flames come into play and the major difference between the two. Twin Flames are meant to be by your side forever! They are your eternal partner that has been created for you, specifically designed for you, and you share a consciousness together. What does that mean? It means that you and your Twin Flame make the same choices, like you were one being! Because, in Divine Truth, you are one being or one consciousness. That doesn’t mean you have the same soul, though. You and your Twin Flame are created from the same soul blue print, and are perfectly complementary for each other. Your Twin Flame is your perfect teacher, best friend, forever partner and lover. Yes, all of those!

Do you have a Twin Flame? Who are they?

Yes, you do have a Twin Flame, everyone has a Twin Flame… but where are they? They are supposed to be with me forever but yet, they are not here? What is this? - these are some of the questions you might have right now. Yes, your Twin Flame is with you, right now and you can connect with them in your heart. The connection you have with them is first internal, and you might need to do a lot of introspection and soul searching before you can know who your True Twin Flame is. This is not meant to be a hard process, but it requires your dedication and commitment in order to manifest this relationship in your life.

Do you feel a calling in your heart for your Twin Flame? Do you wish to know who they are? Do you desire your perfect lover? The answer to these question is probably yes, since you are reading this blog right now. It is safe to admit you desire this connection. This connection is natural and it is for everyone.

My Twin Flame is not here. What to do?

Now that we established that you have a Twin Flame, if you are not together with your in Union (lovers committed to each other - in a relationship), then it is because you made a choice not to be with them, to some degree. All of your relationship is a choice that you make within yourself, and you align with that choice in all ways. In order to manifest Union, you have to find within yourself all places in which you chose separation and choose Union instead. It is a coming back to self journey that requires your total commitment to unconditional love. The best tool to healing the separation between Twin Flames in the Mirror Exercise, explained for you in this book and in this video.

Since you and your Twin Flame make the same choices, at the core, it is only natural that, as you choose to be together, you will attract them into your life. The choice itself might be easy to make, you think: I just have to say “I choose to be with my Twin Flame” and it done, right? . Yes, but to what degree? You might say this in your heart all the time, but nothing would happen on the outside, you would remain blocked, ghosted or ignored by this person who is supposed to love you like no other. This choice has to ripple into all of yourself, into all of your reality in order for external change to happen. You have to ask yourself in which way you are holding back love from yourself? The answer is obvious as a romantic side, but look into other places in your life in which you might experience a lack of love. Do you feel supported in your finances? Do you feel good in your body? How is your health doing? How are the relationships around you looking like? Are they loving and supportive or they perpetuate abuse and maltreatment? As I said, there is a lot of introspection and soul searching in the process of attracting your Twin Flame, and seemingly unrelated things that you improve in your life can magnetize them to you in unforeseen ways. Your total commitment and unconditional love has to come towards yourself FIRST. Your Twin Flame is the greatest supporter you will ever have in improving your life, in healing and, ultimately, in ascension.

Twin Flame Mirroring

But my twin flame is mean to me and doesn’t speak to me? How can you can they are loving me and they are supposed to help me do amazing things? The answer to your concern is the phenomenon called “Twin Flame Mirroring”.

Twin Flame Mirroring is the way your Twin Flame shows to you places that have yet to be loved in yourself and in your consciousness. As a mirror, they will reflect patterns, thoughts and behaviors you harbor deep down and might not want to look at. As you take time in this journey to heal using the Mirror Exercise, focusing on loving yourself and practicing self-care, your Twin Flame will naturally start to reflect the love you have given to yourself first.

Your Twin Flame is not talking to you? - How are you not talking to yourself? How do you ignore what you have to say or put yourself down?

Your Twin Flame is mean to you? - How are you being mean or disrespectful of yourself? How do you treat yourself badly? How are you not taking care of yourself?

Your Twin Flame is with somebody else? - What do you put first instead of yourself? Where are you attached to people/situations that do not serve your higher good? Are you still attached to former partners inside or carry hurt from previous relationships?

Your Twin Flame is being more and more distant? - How are you being distant to yourself? Are you needy? Do you expect things from your Twin Flame? Are you putting your Twin Flame first, and not yourself?

These are some ways in which your Twin Flame can reflect part of yourself in which you have not loved yourself. You can go through the questions, answer them, and you will find places inside of yourself in need of your attention, care and love. Again, the recommendation is to use the Mirror Exercise, explained for you in this book and in this video, as a tool for healing situations that come up in your relationship.

Commitment and False Twin Flame experiences

A key element in this journey is Commitment. You cannot nurture the Twin Flame relationship if you jump around from partner to partner at the first sign of something not working out. You have to sit down and do your best to work through the challenges that arise with love, patience and understanding. This doesn’t mean force the relationship, control it, break boundaries or manipulate yourself and your Twin Flame into a relationship. Any attempt of that will send your true Twin Flame as far as possible from you, because the only way to manifest your relationship is through UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.

You are on a journey together, and situations that have happened or are happening are exactly what you need in order to go deeper in your relationship together, right now. The deeper you commit to your Twin Flame and self love, the more miracles you will attract into your life and your relationship will improve. All that you have to do is commit to the relationship, trust your heart and follow the guidance you are being shown.

But I have been on this journey for years and I practiced a lot of self love, went through various healing modalities and nothing is changing. I feel like giving up. Yes, you might feel a lot of hardship sometimes in your journey, this is why you require the appropriate support to move forward. Do you commit to your perfect support system? (Check our recommended resources and https://twinflamesuniverse.com/ for the best Twin Flame support available)

Even so, if things still do not move forward, maybe it is time to take into account that you have been experiencing a False Twin Flame relationship. A False Twin Flame (can be considered a Soul Mate or Karmic Partner) is a person that comes into your life, which you believe in your True Twin Flame, and carries some similarities, that has the purpose of providing you with lessons that can help boost you towards your True Twin Flame. As you heal and practice the Mirror Exercise for long periods of times (months/years), your False Twin Flame will start to slowly go further and further away from your reality, to make room for your true Twin Flame. It is a normal process and a result of your love returning to you. This might seem scary, as you believe this person is your Twin Flame and they are moving further and further away from you, but have faith that your true Twin Flame will never leave you when you are actively committed to reuniting with them. The best way to determine if what you are experiencing is a False Twin Flame relationship is to detach from who your True Twin Flame is as a person, and focus on the qualities (core values) you share at the core. You can build a Love List, which is a tool that can help you see if the person you believe is your Twin Flame is indeed that. As you develop this list, you will start to see how the False Twin Flame will fail to align fully with that you feel at the core your Twin Flame should be like.

It is important to explore deeply what you are experiencing with the person you believe is your Twin Flame, so you can fully feel the truth of your relationship. You wouldn’t want to push your True Twin Flame away because of some upsets or misunderstandings, thinking they are a False Twin Flame. Be mindful of the connection you have and avoid harsh decisions based of fear, anger or resentment. The answer you seek you will find in peace.

Conclusion

We highly endorse you start practicing the Mirror Exercise to help you manifest your Twin Flame Union and Harmonious Union, along with all of your desires. As you do that, you will experience miracles in your life.

What other Twin Flame related questions or topic you would like us to cover? What are some of your curiosities or concerns that we could help you address? We would love to dwell deeper into topics that are for your interest and benefit. Leave a comment below and let us know how we can help you manifest your perfect life of love, with your Twin Flame.

Lots of love to you!